An Open Letter for Moms Who Have Experienced Miscarriage

Dear, wonderful moms who have experienced miscarriage.

We know that this is devastating and breaking your heart. You might even feel exhausted as you feel like you are waiting to the Labor Day but your baby gives up life during pregnancy.

One thing you need to know is miscarriage is common thing that happen to moms out there too. In fact, one of four women has experienced as you have been. It must be so hurting knowing that you will never get a chance to hold your soon baby to be, but we are supposed to get over it.

As mom, we are born to be as strong as we can.

Because strong mom is the best protector for the children besides strong father. Courage yourself to just snap it off and be thankful for our other kids. If you haven’t have any, remember that God is the best lover to His people. He will send us another angel one day when you are ready.

We know, passing this moment aren’t easy. You might be judged by people around you about how deep and how long you are allowed to feel your pain and when you need to move on. Don’t listen to them. Indeed, you have to strong enough to snap it off, but that time will come whenever your heart desire, not because of those people. Because not all of them are really caring and trying to help you, but some of them are also thoughtless and drown with hateful and you don’t need those negative energy to let you down. Just ignore them!

Think about some struggles we need to put if she/ he had kept growing, mom!

Release your sadness and burden by thinking about how much effort you need to put to build or redecorate a new nursery room as we found out the baby was on the way and keeps getting closer to due date. You would be hugely pregnant at constantly wide awake in the middle of the night as figuring out how to manage career, financial and energy for a new member of infant, toddler then kindergartener.

Those aren’t really a problem as we love our child but thinking those might help you to manage your current situation. You’re handling it.

You will handle this condition really well, mom.

It just is, you never choose it.

In some condition, miscarriage can’t be resisted despite how big your effort during pregnancy is. If you have other children, you are lucky because you will always live with gratitude for your children. If you haven’t have any, someday you will

We understand sometimes this is so sad for child you never got to meet. But remember that you never choose it. It just it. We know, you will move on and ready to welcome the new one. However you don’t have to snap it off, you can carry it if you want to get you stronger.

As a miscarriage mom, there is no right or wrong way to lose a child. Whenever you miss your never-meet-kid, remember that there are big amount of mothers, just like you, whose heart keep the loss baby who no one else remembers one day.

You are strong and you are not alone.

Here are some heartbreaking miscarriages in moving photographs.